What makes a man truly Godly? Recent weeks have had me reflecting more on the disciplines of a Godly man and how we show up spiritually today.
The disciplines of a Godly man don’t involve luck and chance, or simply showing up at church on Sunday. A Godly man is shaped by daily choices, the habits that strengthen his faith, sharpen his character, and anchor him in Christ. These choices don’t happen by accident. They are intentional, consistent, and practiced over time. These are the disciplines of a Godly man.
When you look at men of faith who stand firm through trials, lead their families well, and leave a legacy of integrity, you’ll find something in common: they’ve built their lives on disciplines. The good news is this… these disciplines are available to every man who wants to grow.
Spiritual Disciplines of a Godly Man
A Godly man’s strength starts with his relationship with God. Spiritual disciplines ground him in truth, align his heart with God’s will, and fuel everything else in his life.
- Prayer: More than requests, prayer is a conversation with God. A Godly man disciplines himself to pray daily, seeking both guidance and strength.
- Time in the Word: The Bible shapes the thoughts and actions of a man who wants to live with wisdom and truth.
- Worship: Worship re-centers the heart on God, whether in solitude or with a community of believers.
- Sabbath & Rest: One of the most overlooked disciplines of a Godly man is learning to rest, trusting that God is in control even when he steps back.
Personal Disciplines of a Godly Man
Character is forged in the quiet places of life, where no one else is watching. Personal disciplines help a Godly man live with integrity, humility, and intentional self-control.
- Self-Control: A Godly man practices discipline over his desires and impulses, choosing what leads to life.
- Integrity: His words and actions align, whether in private or in public.
- Humility: He walks in strength, but with a posture of humility, putting God and others above himself.
- Stewardship: One of the disciplines of a Godly man is managing time, talents, money, and health in ways that honor God.
Relational Disciplines of a Godly Man
No man is meant to walk alone. Relational disciplines remind a Godly man to lead with love, surround himself with accountability, and serve those around him.
- Loving Leadership: He leads his family, church, and community with love and sacrifice.
- Accountability: A Godly man surrounds himself with others who sharpen and challenge him.
- Service: He actively looks for ways to serve others rather than being served.
- Encouragement: His words bring life, strengthening the people around him.
Missional Disciplines of a Godly Man
A Godly man knows his life has a greater purpose than just himself. Missional disciplines push him outward to share his faith, invest in others, and stand firm in courage.
- Evangelism: Sharing faith is one of the disciplines of a Godly man, pointing others to hope in Christ.
- Discipleship: He invests in the growth of others, passing on wisdom and truth.
- Generosity: He gives freely, trusting God to provide.
- Courage: When standing firm in faith is costly, a Godly man practices the discipline of courage.
Why the Disciplines of a Godly Man Matter
Our world is desperate for men who will stand firm in faith, lead with integrity, and love with courage. Too often, culture celebrates selfishness, compromise, and passivity, but the disciplines of a Godly man push back against that tide. When men show up anchored in prayer, grounded in truth, and committed to serving others, families are strengthened, communities are transformed, and faith is passed on to the next generation.
The call is urgent. This is not a time for men to drift or settle. Practicing the disciplines of a Godly man today creates the kind of leadership, character, and hope the world is searching for. Every man who chooses these disciplines helps light the way in today’s culture.
These disciplines aren’t about achieving perfection or legalism. They’re about progress. They shape a man into someone who honors God, serves others, and leaves a lasting legacy. Practicing the disciplines of a Godly man daily transforms not only the man himself but also the lives of everyone around him.
A Final Thought
If you’re ready to grow in these areas, start small. Choose one discipline of a Godly man to lean into this week. Over time, these habits will stack, shaping your faith, your leadership, and your life. The disciplines of a Godly man are less about rigid rules and more about building a life of consistency, character, and conviction. They are the path to becoming the man God designed you to be.
Ready for More?
The disciplines of a Godly man aren’t just good habits… they’re weapons in the spiritual battle we face every day. In my book WAR: A Tactical Guide for Christian Men, we dig deeper into these disciplines, showing how they equip you to stand firm against the enemy’s attacks and lead with strength as a husband, father, brother, and man of God. If you’re ready to not just know the disciplines, but live them out on the battlefield, this book was written for you. Get your copy here.
